Can You Get a DNA Test Without Someone Knowing?

Can You Get an Infidelity DNA Test Without Someone Knowing?

It’s one of the most commonly searched questions when it comes to DNA and Infidelity testing: "Can I test someone’s DNA without their permission?" The short answer? It may depend where you live and what you plan to do with the results.

Legal Considerations

In the U.S., DNA testing laws vary by state. Some states consider it illegal to collect or test someone’s DNA without their consent, while others may allow it for non-legal, private use. For example, you may not use results in court if the sample wasn’t collected through a verified process.

Please note that testing items for DNA found on your own property (home, car, property) or in a communal area (garbage, etc) is not necessarily illegal, particularly if you have a right to possess the items and the testing is for personal use.

Additionally, it's important to note that all laboratories that test these kinds of non-standard samples, such as clothing, bedsheets, or personal items, do so under the doctrine of Implied Consent. This means that when an item is submitted for testing, the submitter is attesting they have the right to test that item. The laboratory’s role is to test the sample as provided and does not verify ownership or consent unless it is a legal (chain-of-custody) case.

Ethical Considerations

Even if it’s legal, discreet DNA testing comes with ethical concerns. Testing someone’s DNA without their knowledge can breach trust, especially in personal relationships. Always consider open communication before proceeding.

What You Can Do

  • Use a non-invasive sample from yourself or your child (if you're the legal guardian)

  • Collect samples with full consent

  • Choose tests designed for at-home, peace-of-mind purposes, not legal use

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